Mary gordon empathy
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In Full Bloom Caroline Hwang. Looking for More Great Reads? Her husband, John Ryan, is what today we would call a predator, an office harasser, someone who exploits to the fullest his position of power and influence. Isabel is an easy target for him, in need as she is of a job, which he provides. Thus is she beholden to him.
She has sex with him but to me it was a rape scene.
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Because she is an innocent. Hungry for something she cannot name. An identity? A purpose? A sexual definition? She could not have a sexual definition living in her father's home throughout her twenties, surrounded by priests, their nun-like handmaid. When she finally emerges from the prolonged stagnation of her cocoon, she is a butterfly trying her wings, following her hormones.
The big surprise to me is the outcome of her involvement with Hugh, the married man. How many of us are fooled by these married men who seem true and even virtuous, righteous in their serial desire for another woman, who stay married because they are unable to de-commit. Isabel doesn't want to hurt anyone. Hugh doesn't want to hurt anyone. But everyone is hurt, always.
This story unravels in a very misguided, fallen-Catholic way. I am glad I read it. I hope I have learned from it. And I thank Mary Gordon for circumscribing the chaos of all these fallen angels. Valerie Best. So, when I started reading this, I thought to myself, "why don't I read more modernist literature it was published in , but it has a very mid-century sound?
That's why. Like a written account of watching a second hand tick around a clock. Isabelle's father dies, she sells the house and gets a job. Aaaaaaaaaand, that's it. But, don't worry, she makes plenty of terrible and super selfish decisions along the way. It's not even the lack of action that bothers me. I like small brushstrokes.
But Isabelle is so navel-gazing and unlikable, I couldn't care less what she does. Which is great, since she does nothing! Everyone is just soooooo miserable: Isabelle, all her friends, the married men she sleeps with. They all just eat and drink and languish in this casual misery, and it just grates.
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Isabelle is slightly woke, in that she takes notice of systemic racism and sexism, but, it never goes beyond noticing. I know this book was written in a different time, but I'm simply not in the mood to forgive Isabelle for complicity, especially as she seems to want approbation for the little she does. Beyond that, there is an unnerving lack of charity for the old and infirm.
Actually, a complete lack of charity for anyone that Isabelle herself doesn't find visually pleasing. It's so global to the story, without feeling relevant to the story, that it simply feels unexplainably cruel. It feels really weird to give a talent like Mary Gordon a one-star review, buuuuuuuut, in summation, I might recommend skipping this one.
Ok khay, we can be sisters again.. I liked the idea of someone giving up her life for an ailing parent and then suddenly not knowing who she is when the parent dies and having to reinvent herself etc - however, i knocked off a star because 1 - authentic dialogue is something i really value in a book, and hers just really sounded off to me - EVERYONE is so profound?
Berk Rourke. I think it is difficult for a man to understand all the reasons a woman does something. This book has that as one of its man themes I believe. Other themes have to do with the relationship of a Roman Catholic to their priest, the relationships of friends who grew up in the Roman Catholic schools, the changes in life occurring for the principal character when her Father dies.
I enjoyed this book as a piece of writing. The characters have so many problems I cannot relate to the read was not easy, though. It is not an easy reading book. You must concentrate on what the author is trying to say. For that reason I cannot give it five stars. This is a book anyone can read but for young children and tweens.
There is some sexual content which takes it out of the realm of children's books or books for tweens. A new favorite book. As someone who grew up in church, I related strongly to the main character. She struggles between finding security but also constraint in her "disclosed identity", and freedom but also confusion and messiness as she pursues a "created identity".
I will read this book over and over again in my life - I'm sure I will take different things away from it and see the character differently in each phase of my life. At my current life stage, I resonate with her desire to create her own identity, yet also experiencing pain and confusion as she is hurt by various people especially men.
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When it all becomes too much, she defaults on what she knows of being a "good person" and all that religious guilt and shame comes back. I had so many changing opinions and reflections as I read this. I can't wait to read it again. Isabel Moore, the main character of the book, tries to reenter adult life at 30 after caring for her invalid father for 11 years.
While there were some small areas I could relate to the special feeling of being really needed, the feeling that no one else can do the things you are doing , I had a very hard time relating to so many of her issues. A lot of Catholic angst, a lot of "if I do this, will this happen? The book did hold my attention, even though I wanted, at times, to slap the girl on the head for doing some of the crazy things she did.
I finished it Francine Apollo. This is the work that made Mary Gordon's name If you grew up in a Catholic household in the 50's and 60's, you read about familiar situations. I found this book very real and reflective. I especially liked the character of Father Mulcahy Our heroine barely escaped her situation but she did and that's the uplifting message.
Highly recommended. This book was published in I was in high school. I burst out laughing. The book deals with a young woman who has spent 11 years as the only caretaker of her father who has had a series of strokes. The story considers sacrifice, selfishness and desires. Nicole Fegan. I so strongly wish I could rate this 3.
I didn't enjoy it enough for it to be a 4-star book, but it has quite enough merit to keep it being a 3.
Mary gordon sons of katie elder: Witty, brave, intelligent, and passionate, she sets out to conquer the world. She is supported by the loving encouragement of two old school friends, rapidly becomes involved with two men -- and then discovers that before she can grasp the present she must make her final payments to the past.
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